My nephew was gone a long time.
He was gone from the last of Lent to Christmas. Too long for a son who will come back. But he did come back. He came home again in time for the celebration of Christmas, but he did not bring Mansa.
My nephew went to Accra to a place called Mamprobi to find his sister. He tells us he stayed in the house of his friend Duaywaw. He took a long time to tell us this story. My brothers and my sisters and my littlest neice, we waited for him to bring her back and then we waited to hear the reason she was not there.
He told us of the dizzying cars in Accra. I do not understand these cars. Where in our country are there so many people with the money to buy cars? Our money goes to our children, to the growing of yams. But these people, they have cars to drive them to their farms. Perhaps they have no farms. I do not know. I do not know of these people.
My nephew was patient in his telling. Our family had many questions and gave him constant interruption. He allowed our questions but answered only a few. He requested a drink from me to clear his throat. It was then that I knew he was telling a sad story. Only the sad stories are difficult to tell.
My nephew found a bus to take him to Mamprobi. I worried that the driver would decieve a confused young man, but my nephew assured me he met Duayaw safely. Duayaw was asleep, in the afternoon on a Saturday. My nephew says Duayaw has gained much wealth. The Lord has blessed his family.
Duayaw in his youth went to school with Mansa. Duayaw became wealthy. My neice, she refused school after Klase Tri. She caused trouble for her mother until I found her a teacher who would educate Mansa in the ways of a woman. She came back for Christmas and showed us her skill in sewing and keeping the house. But the next Christmas she did not return. For twelve years she has not come back to her home. That is why my nephew went to find her.
Duayaw made my nephew believe Mansa has found a big man. As my nephew told the story, I believed too that perhaps she had found a big man in the city. Ei! That would be well for her. But Mansa was a good girl in her youth. If she had found fortune she would have come to her family to bring them wealth. But she has not. Because of this, even though I hoped, I knew in my heart she had not married a big man.
Duayaw knew much about Mamprobi. He knew that it was too big a city to find a young girl. But Mansa was only young when she left. She was ten when I last saw her. She would be a woman now. Duayaw discouraged my nephew. But all the same he would help.
My nephew told us that Duayaw has a woman. She is not of his tribe. They should not marry. A man should respect his tribe. Duayaw has been blessed by the Lord, but will be out of favor if he continues with this woman. She even eats with the men! I did not believe when my nephew told me this. I shouted, "Ei!" but my nephew says it is true.
It was just before my nephew told us of his night out in Mamprobi that he asked for a drink. This began the sad part of the telling. I knew it was sad because he asked for a drink.
I did not believe him when he said he went to dance in the big city. People in the city do not dance. They do not have the schooling of their elders to teach them. They do not have the cloths to dance in. Ei! But they dance all the same. My nephew tells me, so it is true.
I did not believe either that Duayaw's woman would drink beer. But my nephew says she did drink, and sitting with the men. He says there were many women in the place. The women of the city drink beer. They drink beer even with men who are not their husbands. This city is not blessed by the Lord.
My nephew danced. I am proud that he danced in the ways of his people. He even began to dance with the women there. These women, they are not married and yet they drink beer and go together to a dance with no men. They dance with any man they choose and paint their lips to look the same as their blood. My nephew tells me this is true.
He danced with one of the women. She laughed when he spoke Fante. Then he danced with another woman. She took him to a place with bright light. It was there that she screamed at him. "Any kind of work is work! You villager, you villager, who are you!" he tells us she said. This girl, she had painted her face too. But in the bright light my nephew knew her. He put his hands on her shoulders to calm her but she threw them away. A sister treating her brother so! But she did not know him. When she did recognize him, she only laughed. And she did not come home with him She is a bad woman, a woman who will take a man to a corner of a dance in the city. But it was Mansa. And she is coming home at Christmas.
My nephew asked someone to cut another drink. I asked for one too.
He was gone from the last of Lent to Christmas. Too long for a son who will come back. But he did come back. He came home again in time for the celebration of Christmas, but he did not bring Mansa.
My nephew went to Accra to a place called Mamprobi to find his sister. He tells us he stayed in the house of his friend Duaywaw. He took a long time to tell us this story. My brothers and my sisters and my littlest neice, we waited for him to bring her back and then we waited to hear the reason she was not there.
He told us of the dizzying cars in Accra. I do not understand these cars. Where in our country are there so many people with the money to buy cars? Our money goes to our children, to the growing of yams. But these people, they have cars to drive them to their farms. Perhaps they have no farms. I do not know. I do not know of these people.
My nephew was patient in his telling. Our family had many questions and gave him constant interruption. He allowed our questions but answered only a few. He requested a drink from me to clear his throat. It was then that I knew he was telling a sad story. Only the sad stories are difficult to tell.
My nephew found a bus to take him to Mamprobi. I worried that the driver would decieve a confused young man, but my nephew assured me he met Duayaw safely. Duayaw was asleep, in the afternoon on a Saturday. My nephew says Duayaw has gained much wealth. The Lord has blessed his family.
Duayaw in his youth went to school with Mansa. Duayaw became wealthy. My neice, she refused school after Klase Tri. She caused trouble for her mother until I found her a teacher who would educate Mansa in the ways of a woman. She came back for Christmas and showed us her skill in sewing and keeping the house. But the next Christmas she did not return. For twelve years she has not come back to her home. That is why my nephew went to find her.
Duayaw made my nephew believe Mansa has found a big man. As my nephew told the story, I believed too that perhaps she had found a big man in the city. Ei! That would be well for her. But Mansa was a good girl in her youth. If she had found fortune she would have come to her family to bring them wealth. But she has not. Because of this, even though I hoped, I knew in my heart she had not married a big man.
Duayaw knew much about Mamprobi. He knew that it was too big a city to find a young girl. But Mansa was only young when she left. She was ten when I last saw her. She would be a woman now. Duayaw discouraged my nephew. But all the same he would help.
My nephew told us that Duayaw has a woman. She is not of his tribe. They should not marry. A man should respect his tribe. Duayaw has been blessed by the Lord, but will be out of favor if he continues with this woman. She even eats with the men! I did not believe when my nephew told me this. I shouted, "Ei!" but my nephew says it is true.
It was just before my nephew told us of his night out in Mamprobi that he asked for a drink. This began the sad part of the telling. I knew it was sad because he asked for a drink.
I did not believe him when he said he went to dance in the big city. People in the city do not dance. They do not have the schooling of their elders to teach them. They do not have the cloths to dance in. Ei! But they dance all the same. My nephew tells me, so it is true.
I did not believe either that Duayaw's woman would drink beer. But my nephew says she did drink, and sitting with the men. He says there were many women in the place. The women of the city drink beer. They drink beer even with men who are not their husbands. This city is not blessed by the Lord.
My nephew danced. I am proud that he danced in the ways of his people. He even began to dance with the women there. These women, they are not married and yet they drink beer and go together to a dance with no men. They dance with any man they choose and paint their lips to look the same as their blood. My nephew tells me this is true.
He danced with one of the women. She laughed when he spoke Fante. Then he danced with another woman. She took him to a place with bright light. It was there that she screamed at him. "Any kind of work is work! You villager, you villager, who are you!" he tells us she said. This girl, she had painted her face too. But in the bright light my nephew knew her. He put his hands on her shoulders to calm her but she threw them away. A sister treating her brother so! But she did not know him. When she did recognize him, she only laughed. And she did not come home with him She is a bad woman, a woman who will take a man to a corner of a dance in the city. But it was Mansa. And she is coming home at Christmas.
My nephew asked someone to cut another drink. I asked for one too.
*This story is a retelling of In the Cutting of a Drink, the short story by Ama Ata Aidoo